I remember her attentiveness to every student, regardless of their background and the family they came from. She made no distinctions between us and for her each one was unique in his or her own way.
As is the case in virtually all professions, teaching is a profession where some teachers have a sense of obligation, while others bring a dedication and heart to their work that is palpable to their pupils. Darja is (was) definitely our teacher with a big heart.
She gave many real-life examples in her teaching, but most of all she taught us tolerance, respect and empathy, which I particularly liked about her.
I remember when we went on a school trip to the Ljubljana Zoo. My parents had prepared food and drinks for me to take home, but because they thought I didn't need any money, I was only given a small amount just in case.
At first it looked like it wouldn't be a problem because everything else was taken care of, so I didn't worry my childish head about it during the zoo tour. But when we had finally seen all the animals, many of my classmates went to the local shop to buy little neat souvenirs. There was quite a selection of the latter; from a variety of small animal figurines to snow globes and the like, it was tempting to the sparkling eyes of children.
When I looked at the prices, I quickly realised that I didn't have enough money with me, so I stayed on the sidelines and watched my classmates buy stuffed animals and other decorations. Then my teacher Darja asked me: "Mateja, would you like to have a souvenir?"
I told her I didn't have enough money. "I'll buy one another time," I added. There was a real commotion around us as my classmates laughed as they held up their toys and souvenirs and exchanged them. Meanwhile, Darja, the teacher, walked over to the toy and souvenir stall and bought another one for herself. At least that's what it looked like at first sight.
After a few minutes, when I was more alone, she brought me a neat souvenir and discreetly handed it to me: 'This is for you, so you will remember our trip fondly.' I accepted it with gratitude and emotion.
This gesture has remained in my memory, but it was not the only one, because teacher Darja always noticed the little hardships of the children that other teachers might have overlooked. She also guided us, her pupils, to help each other and to be together, which is etched in my memory and is a good example to me for life.
Mateja Sekavčnik, 20. 6. 2025